Gay Massage Experiences

I relish the sensual feeling of being touched and the exciting possibility of enticing the masseur into providing additional, intimate services. Whenever I travel to an LGBT-friendly city like Bangkok, Taipei, or Tokyo, I make it a point to seek out man-to-man massage services.

Bangkok

It's always a pleasant surprise whenever I visit everyone's favorite ASEAN city. I could be having a massage at a seemingly normal parlor, but halfway through, as I feel my erection stir and grow, the male masseur would often subtly suggest "extra services" for a tip.

The masseurs here typically pay close attention to my nipples when massaging my chest, rubbing aromatic oil and brushing ever so lightly against them. My nipples are definitely my weak spots; they invariably make me uncontrollably hard. Another common technique is using oil to massage the inner thighs, their fingers dancing closer to my growing desire.

Beyond these unexpected delights, Bangkok also offers establishments marketed specifically as "men-for-men" but strictly without additional services, as well as those that are explicitly for intimate encounters only.

I remember sitting in a gallery full of men, my eyes scanning the room, selecting a charming face and hot body to accompany me to a private room. I shed my clothes and lay on my front. Surprisingly, the guy gave a truly exceptional back and leg massage. When I finally turned over, my cock was rock hard, and I eagerly fucked him. On my very next trip, we even arranged to meet privately at my hotel room, a clandestine repeat performance.

Taipei

I've mentioned getting gay massages during my Taiwan trips in previous post. I engaged Captain Taiwan's service both times I was in Taipei. You add their account on Line, and they'll share the weekly lineup of male masseurs and their availability. Then, you're given the precise location of a rented private apartment.

I love the rush of excitement as the masseur opens the door, welcoming you into the apartment. More often than not, they look even better in person and hardly ever disappoint. Gentle spa music would be playing in the background as I stepped into the softly lit room.

After removing my shoes, I was ushered to the shower. After a quick wash, I shed the towel around my waist and lay down, anticipation buzzing through me. By now, the handsome masseur would already be in his underwear (or jockstraps), his body a tantalizing promise.

The session often came with a superb massage—gentle yet firm—melting away all the knots and aches. Things started to truly spice up when he began to lube me with the aromatic oil, his warm chest sensually rubbing against my back.

He asked if I enjoyed his massage and if I engaged this service often. I told him I loved to try it whenever I visited Taipei. He mentioned that usually, it’s local and/or older gay men who are the customers. As we chatted and he continued rubbing me, my cock got throbbed with desire, and I hesitantly asked if I could kiss him. He normally didn't allow it, but then, with a playful glint in his eye, he said, "You're an exception."

I turned over, and we kissed deeply, our lips intertwining as he continued to massage my chest and stroke my thighs, his touch igniting every nerve ending. My cock was painfully hard, and after 15-20 minutes, it was time for me to release my load. I thanked him for the session, making a mental note of his name and a firm reminder to engage him next time.

The very next day, feeling undeniably horny again, I texted Captain Taiwan. Unfortunately, the guy from yesterday wasn't available at my desired time, so I asked for recommendations. The admin shared a hidden profile that wasn't in the usual lineup and told me this one was "reserved for special customers only."

I had the session with a tall, hunky, tanned, native Taiwanese man. His approach was bold and playful. When I stepped out of the shower, he was already naked, his powerful body on full display. He immediately proceeded to give me an oil massage—and a truly exceptional one. Besides releasing my knots, he seemed to intuitively unlock new pleasure points within me. He turned me over, and my cock was rigid. Seeing this, he sensually grabbed it and, with a confident smirk, sat directly onto my cock. I was fucking him, and he was clearly reveling in the wild ride on my cock. He then asked if he could fuck me, and we did it in missionary and doggy style, each thrust deepening the pleasure.

After we both released our loads, I commended him on how incredible he was, promising a five-star review and a glowing text to the admin. It was only then that he revealed he was actually the boss and the admin handling the chat himself! So, he must have heard good feedback about me from the other masseur and cleverly "tricked" me into this session with him. Very well played indeed.

Tokyo

The Japanese experience is very similar to Taipei, though there's an added layer due to the charming language barrier.

My first masseur was a short but very hunky and sweet guy who gave me a wonderful massage with a happy ending, and we even shared a shower together, the warm water cascading over our bodies.

The second time was with a hunky, tall Japanese man with facial hair, strikingly similar to my Japanese porn crush. As I was only in transition between locations, I didn't have much time or enough yen with me. I'd signed up for the standard 60-minute session, but he was absolutely my type, and I desperately wanted to spend more time with him, so I upgraded to 120 minutes with aromatherapy oil.

He turned on his charm and also turned on his Google Translate so we could understand each other, bridging the linguistic gap. I confessed I really liked Japanese men with facial hair like him (without revealing my specific fetish for Japanese gay porn), and he, in turn, said he liked tall guys like me and wanted a boyfriend who looked just like me. I brushed it off playfully, but my cock was already hard. He told me he preferred to bottom, and I was more than happy to let him sit and ride my cock with abandon. I love this position as our eyes could meet, we kissed passionately, and we were fondling each other’s nipples. His chest was slightly hairy, making him the perfect masseur I had envisioned.

We then switched to doggy style, and I found myself pounding into him, making him moan like my bitch. Hearing his erotic sounds fill the air, I fucked him even harder, and he begged me to breed him. I shot every hot drop of my cum juice deep inside him, and his ass overflowed with my seed. We lay down side by side for me to jerk him off, and he came all over, his cum splattering onto my chest too. We kissed, resting in our satisfied haze, before I showered and made my move.

Singapore

In Singapore, I once tried a mutual friend's service, an oil massage that ended with bukkake all over my face. He lived alone in a spacious three-room HDB flat; he had knocked down walls to create a truly open setting. He meticulously instructed me to clean myself and ensure my ass was thoroughly prepared.

He then proceeded to give me an oil massage—firm, gentle, and profoundly sensual. He moved down to rim me provocatively and finger my eager hole. He fed me his cock for me to suck, teasing my mouth with his length. He didn't fuck me, but he was an expert at edging me, masterfully bringing me to the brink of climax before finally masturbating me until I came. Then, he deliberately walked over to the side of my face to jerk off, releasing his cum directly onto my eager skin.

There was also a sensual male massage session in the city area where nothing more happened, and two different places in the East. One offered a truly excellent spa service with floral baths and an indulgent oil massage, and the other was a four-hands massage culminating in a glorious happy ending.

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Do you enjoy gay massages? Where have you been, and do you have any recommendations?

Gay Cruise by Atlantis Events: Asia 2023 (Singapore to Bangkok)

I'd always wondered what it was like to live within a community of gay men. Would it be a non-stop buffet of sex and orgies, 24/7? A sea of men waiting to choose or be chosen?

When my friend suggested the gay cruise, I leapt at the opportunity.

Pre-Cruise & Boarding

The pre-cruise buzz on Facebook and Telegram was all about hooking up. On boarding day, I wasn't sure what to expect regarding friendliness. I ended up waiting alone; last-minute packing meant my friend had already boarded and was enjoying the buffet lunch without me.

The First Encounter

I was just stepping out from the theatre after the evening performance when, out of the corner of my eye, I caught someone looking at me. I knew that look – the art of cruising, though largely lost with the rise of Grindr and similar apps, was still alive. He was a tall Black dude. 'Great,' I thought, 'I'm finally getting my own BBC.'"

The Hookup

We completed the 'hunt,' a quick chat to confirm our roles, and I brought him back to my cabin. Damn, he was BIG! He used spit, and it wasn't smooth but very kinky. Midway, I had to excuse myself to clear out and grab some silicone lube. The rest was a wild ride. He was rough but respectful, constantly commenting on how much he loved my calves, declaring Asian guys had the best. 

And then he came inside, exploding. I was utterly spent, both of us satisfied with our 'victory.' We parted ways, and somehow, I never saw him again for the rest of the cruise. He was like a mysterious figure, sent to remind me that I'm still a good fuck."

The Couple

I'd met a couple during the pre-cruise events and had played host, taking them on a half-day Singapore trip from Chinatown to Marina Bay. With couples, one is almost always the naughtier one. Later that very same night, my ass still recovering from the BBC, there was a knock on my door at 2 am. Eric and Benny stood there, half-naked, tipsy from the theme party, and clearly horny. 

I let them in—not just into my room, but into my hole. Though drowsy from sleep, I knew it was time for round two. There was sucking, fucking, and a split roast (sucking while getting fucked), satisfying them both before one came in my ass and the other in my mouth. 

We met for brunch later, sharing their 'secret' wink, though everyone at our table clearly knew what had happened.

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Reflection on a New Chapter

I realized this is my first post since the repeal of 377A—and yes, I know I haven't been writing. Different life stages, busy climbing the corporate ladder, have kept me away. When I started this blog in my 20s, this kind of content felt rather taboo. Now, with everyone seemingly an OF creator (many of them went for the gay cruise too), platforms like X.com (formerly Twitter) and Telegram overflowing with explicit content, and the rise of thirst traps on Instagram and TikTok. I've wondered if this OG platform is still relevant.

Recently, a few friends approached me, recognizing me as the person behind this blog, and that gave me a renewed strength to write again. My writer's block has lasted almost a decade, so this felt significant. I've also just hit 40, though I often hear I don't look it!

What will my kink interests be moving forward? Should I lean into being a Dom or a sub, a top or a bottom, or embrace a mix of everything? I feel a bit caught in between right now. Recently, I've also found myself drawn to exploring leather.

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Connect With Me

Whether you're a long-time reader or have just discovered me, please feel free to reach out on X @erectionary2 or email: erectionary@gmail.com. I'm still on Recon, profile - DarkSunny.  I'd love to hear from you, build a supportive BDSM community, and maybe even enjoy a session if we're both up for it.

Business Trips to KL and Taipei

Last year, I got a new job which required me to travel for meetings overseas. I made use of the opportunity to meet up with guys whom I had chatted with previously but haven’t had the chance to meet. One of them was Roy who is from Kuala Lumpur.

Despite being bottom these days, I had a hardon after he sent me recent pics of his fit, athletic gym bod. Roy goes to the gym 5 times a week to build up his physique. He’s been very horny recently as he had volunteered to be in chastity and passed the keys of his cock cage to a key holder. He planned to unlock and let me milk him as much as I want to.

What attracts me to him is that he is bisexual and would only fuck girls. He doesn’t kiss men but he wants to be a slutty hole that lets other guys use his pussy.

When we met, Roy didn’t disappoint. He wore a skin-tight spandex singlet with a short workout shorts. He told me that his shorts are actually female’s cutting and it’s shorter than the usual men’s cutting.

I turned him around so his back was facing me and pulled him close to inspect this toned, muscular bitch in his skimpy attire. I pulled up his slutty shorts to reveal a sexy pair of STUD jockstraps. We were both having a hardon.

I put on some lube and went for his ass. His hole was tight but warm and nice, within minutes I was already cumming. I pulled out and threw away the condom.

I pushed him onto the bed, hogtied his hands and feet’s together, and insert a vibrating ball into his sexy butt. He was collared and we had puppy play as I ordered him to shake his ass and tail.

We had more ass play and he was moaning non-stop as I inserted anal balls, dildo, or electro butt plug into his slutty ass. I had to use a gag to prevent the other hotel guests from complaining as he was mourning too loud.

I turned him over and tied him spread eagle. I used a dildo to fuck his ass while I edged his dick. Eventually, he was unable to hold back and shot his load all over his abs. We washed up and went for dinner after that.

I will share the stories of my business trips to Bangkok in a separate blog post.

My new work was stressful but it allowed flexible working hours. So when my fuck buddy, Sam, suggested heading to his place during lunchtime to fun, I jumped at the opportunity.

Previously we had played together once at his condo when his BF was away but we hadn't had the chance to meet again until he came up with this new idea.

He drove over and picked me up. We headed to his place which was just 10 minutes away from my office. We embraced and kissed as we shut the door behind us. Like two horny teenagers, we wasted no time in undressing each other.

He sucked on nipples as he unbuttoned my shirt and I played with his nipples while I removed his shirt. We got out of our clothes and he threw me onto his bed. He lifted my legs and rimmed my ass causing me to moan while his hands grabbed my chest and sucked on my nipples.

He motioned for me to kneel down and I took his 8-inch cock into my mouth to suck it. He was moaning as I deep throat his dick. Once his cock was hard as a rock, he told me to get onto the bed and I positioned myself in doggie position for him to enter me.

His cock was hard and thick, it hurt a little as he entered my tight ass. We put a bit more lubed and soon he was fucking me like no tomorrow. We changed positions and arranged for a few more lunchtime fuck sessions in the coming months.

One day, I received a text message from him telling me that he had a business trip to Taiwan and asked if I was able to join him. I was excited at the chance to be his sex slave waiting for him in the hotel after he finished his work to fuck me.

He was horny after the whole week of meetings and fucked me once before dinner.

The next day he wanted to sleep in so I went for breakfast at the hotel lobby. When I was back his cock was hard and he pushed me onto the bed to fuck me. We played till it was lunchtime.

We had lunch at a nearby restaurant and returned back for more action. He fucked me till he cummed the second time that day. I went for a swim in the hotel pool and when I came back, he told me that he had arranged for a threesome.

Within a few minutes, there was a knock on the door and a fit guy in his early twenties stood outside. Sam welcomed him in and soon his clothes were on the floor and I was sucking his cock while Sam played with his nipples.

We arranged to go for gay massage separately by Captain Taiwan. Unlike in Japan where the masseur would shower with you, the ones in Taiwan didn't. Nevertheless, the masseur who I had chosen was a cute, lean guy who enjoyed listening to Ariana Grande while massaging me and giving me a happy end.

On the last day of my trip, I wanted to check out a men's onsen but decided to go for another massage. The masseur turned out to be a tanned hunk who was very cheeky and good at teasing me and giving me a hard-on throughout the 180 minutes session.

When he flipped me over, he brushed his big cock against my ass causing me to arch backwards to grab his cock. He lubed up and fucked me, giving me a very happy and satisfy ending to the massage and also the whole trip. 

A Very Horny Intern

He came right over after working out at the gym. Dressed in a loose-fitting red t-shirt and knee-length bermuda shorts, he could easily blend into the crowd on this hot, sunny day. He texted to say he had reached. But then sent another message saying that he had gone to the wrong lift lobby. When he finally arrived and knocked on my door, he was 30 minutes late. 

This wasn't our first meet up. Due to busy schedule, we had not been able to arrange for another session. He knew my standard and he was aware of punishment if he was late. 

I led him to the other room and allowed him to clean up while I went back to the room to prepare my gears for his predicament. When he had finished showering, I instructed him to stand beside the door with his hands behind his back. 

He had already changed his clothes. Underneath his red t-shirt there was a black sleeveless spandex t-shirt and inside his bermuda shorts, he wore a pair of tight-fitting red lycra swim trunks. He leaned nervously against the wall as I came closer towards him. I handed him a blindfold and told him to put it on.

With his vision covered, I ran my hands slowly down his lean fit body. Starting with light nipple play, I rubbed my thumbs against the tip of his nipples and moved my fingers down, groping his abs and fondling his crotch. He was already hard. In fact, he was leaking precum. The poor boy had not cummed for two weeks due to his busy internship. 

I never really ask what he studies in college but my guess is probably a profession like medical or law from the way he describes his internship.

Lifting his arms up, I peeled off the first layer of clothing. Removing his t-shirt to reveal the black tights he was wearing. I gave his crotch a gentle squeeze before removing his bermuda shorts. He moaned as I rubbed my fingers against his nipples in a circular motion. His hardon was clearly visible. His cock was yearning to pop out from the skimpy pair of red swimwear he had on. But I was not planning to let him cum so easily. 

I turned him 90 degrees to the left such that he was facing the door. Lifted his hands once again. I secured his wrists to the door straps above. Then I walked over and spooned him from behind, rubbing my hard cock against the outline of his butt crack. My hands wrapped around his torso and my fingers were fondling his nipples. He moaned.

His balls looked bigger than usual. Too much cum load simply waiting to be released. I could feel the wetness of his precum and the wet patch was visible on his skimpy red swim trunks. I gave his enlarged balls a gentle squeeze, causing him to breathe deeply and his dick to throb. 

I rubbed my chin against his neckline and whispered into his ears, "I want you to know what your punishment today is. You wish I would edge you crazily like I always do when I punish you. No, not today. I will do it slowly and sensually, you will long for me to grab your dick and edge you but you won't be getting much of that."

"Fuck, I'm sorry. Don't punishment me..." I didn't let him finished his words. Instead, I gave him balls another light squeeze followed by a slap on his manhood. He groaned. 

I pulled his red trunks down to reveal the tanlines. I gave him two slaps. One of each side of his butt cheeks. My hand reached between his legs and my index finger was teasing his asshole. I know we have a 'No Fucking' rule but fingering and prostate stimulation are within our agreement. 

Lubing up my index finger, I ran it along his butt line until I could feel his opening. He probably wasn't expected any ass play and his butt hair was kept in its natural state. I probed my finger in slowly. His manhole had not been penetrated for a long while. He was extremely tight. I made him bend his knees in a half squat position and that relaxed his sphincter muscles and I manage to invade his bottom with my finger.

His cock remained hard. That was a sign for me to do more. I reached for the Aneros on my table, wrapped it with a condom, coated it with lube and aimed it at his butt. With his ass unshaved, it took me a while to locate his butt opening and quite some effort to push the prostate stimulator in. Once the Aneros was in, I gave him two more slaps and pulled up his red trunks to cover his ass. I made a mental note to instruct him to shave his ass next time.

I released his hands from the door straps so I could pull of the top he was wearing. His body is much more defined now. His chest is clearly bigger and his apollo belt is very visible. I turned him to face me, grabbed his arms and secured his wrists to the door straps again. The 'real' torture was about to begin. 

With his spandex top removed, I was given direct access to his sensitive, brown nipples. I began fondling him again. He trembled as I caressed him slowly. Then I put on my scrub gloves and ran my hands lightly along his body, starting from his inner thighs up to his abs, chest and neck. I reversed the sequence and fondled him from top down focusing more on his nipples and inner thighs. He continued to moan non-stop. 

The wet spot on his red swim trunks grew bigger. I scooped off some precum juice and fed it to him. Ordering him to lick and eat every bit of precum I bestowed to him. 

My mouth went for his nipples and within seconds, I was giving him a tongue bath on his left nipple while my hand continued to pinch and play with his right nipple. I would switch to suck his right nipple. The horny intern was moaning non-stop.

I grabbed a chair and got him to sit down. The Aneros pushed deeper into his ass causing his cock to throb more. I placed the two nipple suction cups on his chest. He hissed then inhaled deeply. 

Grabbing the vibrator wand from the table, I placed it underneath his balls to stimulate his prostate and genitals. He hissed again. I went on to tease him by stroking his inner thighs. Occasionally, I would grab his cock and jerk his manhood but never giving him the edging he so longing for. This went on for the next 20-30 minutes. 

I relieved him from the chair bondage and gave him some water. Next he was instructed to lie on the bed while I spread out his limbs and tied them spread eagle to the corners of my bed. Pulling out his manhood, I gave him a gentle stroke and his cock was throbbing non-stop. I would edge him then slap his cock and balls when I sensed that he was closed. This intense edging and genitals abus went on for 45 minutes. He had several dry orgasms before his body gave in and his cock went soft. 

I went of my room to wash the lube off my hands, giving him time to recuperate. 

When I returned, I untied him and instructed him to jerk off. Having experienced multiple dry orgasms, he was having a difficult time making his cock hard again. I stripped off my shorts and masturbated next to him. I told him if I cum first, he would be sent back without cumming that day. 

The horny intern panicked and began to stroke himself faster. I tried to help by playing with his nipples. Soon, I was about to cum. He pleaded not to punish him like that. He desperately needed to drain the horny juice out from his balls. 

I pulled away my hand just before I was about to reach climax. 

I reached over and undid the restraint on his ankles and lifted his legs up in the air. Massaging his butt, I gave the Aneros a little tug. Pulling it out a little, I twisted it 180 degrees while the Aneros still remins inside his ass. After re-positioning the prostate stimulator, his cock began to get hard. 

He was amazed at my 'magic' and began stroking his horny rod excitedly. I pulled his hands away twice, keeping him on the edge before finally giving him permission to shoot. 

The intense pressure from all the earlier foreplay caused him to erupt like a volcano. Waves and waves of semen gushed out from his cock. The last time I saw that huge amount of cum was when he had not cum for 60 days. (Read about that stories here.)

My own cock was rock hard after watching him cum. I stroked my dick harder and soon I was erupted like a mini volcano too. 

We cleaned up. He bid good bye as he had to rush home for dinner with his family.